You’re in and out, puzzled, questioning their every action, unable to label that situation, simply because you don’t get it. Your crush is acting too sweet but you still feel there’s a barrier, you are spending a lot of time together but can’t recall a single special moment. In case that’s what you’ve been dealing with, then, our dear gentlemen, let’s break the not-so-pleasant news; you’ve been friend-zoned. But, if you need more undeniable signs that you are caught in this dilemma, here is how to tell she has friend-zoned you.
You arrange a night out together and end up finding a large group of friends joining.
That’s a tell-tale sign they’re only considering you as a friend, especially if this happens regularly. When a girl is into you she would like more time for just the two of you.
She talks a lot about her exes.
While opening up about past experiences and relationship is totally normal, talking too much about their ex is a sign they haven’t moved yet and that they only find in you a good listener with a capacity to accept their venting.
She tells you she’s not ready for relationship but at the same time talks about someone new she met.
In saying so, she’s indirectly telling you that you are not her type but instead of breaking your heart she chooses the easy way out claiming she is not ready for or not thinking about relationships.
You go the extra mile for her but she barely notices anything.
No matter what you do and how much you try to impress them with extra care and sweetness, nothing gets noticed at all.
She asks for a lot of favors or to run errands for her.
She will mostly ask you to either accompany her to hectic errands or asks you to do them for her on her behalf.
She has labeled one of your girlfriends as a good match.
She keeps on telling you how perfect you are but not for her. She may even introduce you to a friend of hers or even suggest some of your friends as a good match for you.
Sends you texts and calls all day but won’t take your calls for hours.
She would call you or text for random chats most of the time or call to talk about something irritating her but won’t necessarily take your calls or call you back when you do.